I saw a quote today on Facebook.
“Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes Courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, ‘I will try again tomorrow'”.
We are constantly told to be courageous these days – to speak up, to be different, to innovate. This quote actually brought tears to my eyes as I considered it, because so many different takes on courage suddenly flooded my mind and challenged me to consider what the word means for me.
I’ve bungy jumped, sky dived, taken off on my surfboard far to late on waves too big for me, driven my car too fast, trekked in Nepal and even been on the Funnel Web at Jamberoo. All required a form of courage but honestly, mostly the motivation is to be one of the group I was with, or to prove something, rather than to show genuine individual courage.
My true moments of courage came almost 4 years ago when I felt my life was in ruins, and I had decided the world was better off without me. I had to find the courage to accept help, and rebuild myself piece by piece – sometimes hour by hour. This was a slow and steady process, but it became a solid foundation which has changed my perspective on life and altered the benchmark for what is really the worst thing that can happen – my aspiration is that I can take this foundation forward and ensure I make the most of the potential I have to make a difference in some small piece of the world.
In the business world this week I came across an interesting example of courage which I have admired: the retirement of the CEO at the organisation I work – the subsequent appointment of her successor, and the associated internal candidate who came second in that race. The courage of the retiring CEO is out there for all to see – roar and all! But for the 2 candidates for succession, this has been a long hard road chasing a goal that only one could attain. Both internally and externally, we treat these contenders as public property – we all have an opinion, we de-humanise them, we may even mock them. But they’ve both shown ongoing tenacity, dedication and passion.
So today I want to highlight the respect I have for the courage those guys showed to put themselves out there, knowing one would fail… sure, they earn the big bucks, but they’ve both had the courage to move forward with a goal in mind each day; and in the process, they have provided me with inspiration to aim high, despite the possibility of failure.
I hope they can both sit down quietly after a turbulent week, reflect, and try again tomorrow.